It’s officially December, which means my family can finally break out the holiday decorations and belt out the seasonal songs! My neighbors lovingly call me a “grinch” because I refuse to decorate or think about the holidays until after Thanksgiving. (I prefer my turkey without a side of tinsel!) However, there’s a reason behind my tradition: After losing both my parents, I learned the value of not rushing through life’s moments just to get to the next. Each season deserves it’s time to shine.
I also know that the holidays don’t always come wrapped in joy, glittering gifts, and endless happiness. For some families, this season can bring additional financial strain, challenging family dynamics, and overwhelming stress.
That’s why it’s so important to focus on the protective factors that strengthen families, support child development, and help prevent child abuse and neglect. Here are a few things to keep in mind during this busy season:
- Honor each family’s unique traditions – Every family celebrates (or doesn’t celebrate) in their own way, and that’s perfectly okay.
- Talk with children early and often – Kids navigate stress better when they know they have a safe and understanding sounding board.
- Laugh together – Joy is contagious, and sometimes a good chuckle is all you need to turn a tough day around.
When we model these behaviors as adults, children learn from our example. Let’s show them how to embrace the holidays with kindness, resilience, and a little bit of humor.
May this month bring moments of peace, laughter, and joy, along with plenty of opportunities to create cherished memories that will last a lifetime.
With heartfelt gratitude,
